Relationships signify the extent of ones development, mentally and socially. Past relationships leave their traces in a person's psyche enabling or disabling, as the case may be, action/response to some event at a later date. You can't stop loving or wanting to love because when its right, it's the best thing in the world. When you're in a relationship and it's good, even if nothing else in your life is right, you feel like your whole world is complete.
Lets cut to the chase. We guys need our girl friends more than they need us.(No offence meant girls!!Thats just how attached we get to things!) It doesnt matter who wears the pants in the relationship, the girls have US eating out of their hands at the end of the day. But in return, our "masters" provide us with a sense of being complete and just being there for us.
Having said all this, when blips on the relationship radar start to appear, the question of whose fault it was invariably arises. This is when the proverbial shit hits the ceiling.Words are twisted out of context, shouting and yelling become passe and rationality is thrown to the winds.
Experience has taught me that there is nothing that can't be solved by talking things out.People in love usually tend to understand stuff and adjust to whats happening(it just takes a little while). The other person is just as desperate to get back to you. Give them some space.
Realize that you got into the relationship to be together and not apart. Be secure. Talk to a friend. Fresh ideas can sometimes dislodge any block in your cerebrum. Be sincere.
Know that it doesnt really matter whose fault it is. What matters is the intention that the same thing should not crop up again in the future. Make this your committment.
OK, that concludes your 15 fifteen minutes for today. Please be on time for your next meeting. You can pay my fees to my receptionist on the way out.
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